Why the Law of Attraction is Rooted in the Father Wound

The Secret

If you’ve been in the personal and spiritual development space, it is almost guaranteed that sooner or later, usually sooner, you’d get hit by the law of attraction teachings. Many of my friends have been on the Abraham Hicks’s cruise.

According to The Secret website, “Under the Law of Attraction, the complete order of the Universe is determined, including everything that comes into your life and everything that you experience. It does so through the magnetic power of your thoughts.”

Who doesn’t want that? You can get whatever you want from just thinking!

Decades ago, when my sister first presented me with a book that promised I could have the masterkey to manifest anything I wanted in life, I thought I hit the jackpot. I was looking for an apartment at the time and immediately began all the practices. One of them was writing an affirmation on how excited and grateful I was to have received my dream apartment for about 50 times a day.

Many journals and some carpel tunnel syndrome later, there was no apartment.

Through our conversations, we realized that while our conscious mind imagined and desired all the positive outcomes, our unconscious mind was still by and large resisting because of our mental programming, lack of self-belief, ancestral trauma, etc.

I spent the next many years of my life trying to correct my unconscious mind, raise my vibration, master my emotions, and expand my consciousness through various modalities, practices, ceremonies, and rituals. I’ve dedicated most of my life on actualizing myself and my potential. 

In complete honesty, I did get results in my life and business. There is power to our words and emotions. In addition, when we practice rituals and manipulate elements in our environment, we are calling on spirits to assist.

The question which I later began asking is, “What is the origin of those spirits?”

There was a time in my life years ago when my morning ritual was at least an hour long, and it consisted of many components of visualization, repeating affirmations and journaling positive outcomes as if they had already been manifested. 

About two years ago, I grew tired of forcing things (no matter how subtle, it was still manipulation) and abruptly stopped all rituals one day; that was also when I deepened into my union with my inner masculine.

The Original Motive

It wasn’t until last year (2020) that I began revisiting the manifestation topic when I dove deeper into new age deception. You can read about my home coming journey to Jesus as well as why all common personal and spiritual development teachings are part of Luciferianism in my blog post HERE.

One of the most alarming aspects of teaching or practicing spirituality is that very few of us have ever asked what the origin of those practices come from. Most of us are satisfied if a). These modalities have been promoted or endorsed by well-known teachers such as Neville Goddard, Napoleon Hill, Eckhart Tolle, Gabby Bernstein and the like. b). We’re told they’re “ancient spiritual tools and wisdom” that can help us increase awareness and well-being, And c). People, ourselves included, have gotten good results from them. 

The occult forces that control this world (or, let’s call a spade a spade, the devil and his legion of army) certainly enjoy exploiting our ignorance and playing games with our blind spots!

While it is not the focus of this post, new age isn’t really new. It is a mix of occultism, Eastern and Babylonian mysticism, alchemy, Gnosticism, Rosicrucianism, and Freemasonry. Steven Bancarz made a good video named The Law of Attraction Debunked which you can watch HERE.

Most of the practices we’ve inherited from gurus, speakers and coaches orignate from corrupt Babylonian mystery religion founded by Nimrod, made popular by occultists such as Helena Blavatsky. New age is like a fast food religion – it offers artificial means, quick solutions and addictive feel-good fixes to satisfy our need for instant gratification, without actually helping us develop a personal relationship with our faithful Father.

Essentially, we’re sold on the temptation of “here’s what you can get by playing God and centering the whole universe and all God’s creations around yourself.” It is, essentially, a transactional experience: if you do abc, you’ll get xyz.

So here we are, mere mortals who can’t even manifest a speck of dust out of thin air, who are celebrating a death jab that’s designed to destroy our health and hijack our souls as the messiah, walking around with plastic bags around our heads in addition to double layers of the face muzzle, and calling anyone who doesn’t agree with us a racist and white supremacist, get to whore out and command the almighty God to bring us more love, money, success, and happiness?

That sounds just a tad bit arrogant, me thinks.

I am not promoting poverty or self-deprecating behavior. It’s common for those who get humble pilled (Jesus will do it) swing to the other extreme and stop taking care of all their worldly needs. The swing happens because we are not integrated within, so our mind rushes to identify with one side to make sense of things.

I strive to be human, which is what we are. I place God before cash, success, or anything for that matter.

Are You Trying Too Hard?

We try so hard to play God because we have never healed our father wound. We are so far removed from Him, that in order to feel safe and worthy, we try to be Him.

I taught children for ten years in my formal life. Children often want to be the adults they love, because they are not fully cognitively developed to know the difference. I had students who kept on telling me they were their mommies and daddies. It’s also common for children who haven’t learned how to tie their shoes, to rebel against whatever adults say, because they believe they know better.

I remember decades ago when I was going through a rebellious teenage phase, and intentionally did the opposite of everything my parents told me to do because hey, I knew better! How dare they’d even think of challenging me! Looking back, I know I was desperately trying to prove myself to the world because I was insecure.

God created us to be His children, not His equals, and certainly NOT a replacement of Him. In the Garden of Eden, even though Adam had dominion over his land and the power to name all the animals, God the Father was an integral part of his life. Adam and Eve were guided and provided for by God. Together, this was the intimate family unit.

Toxic Selfism

Law of attraction, and most new age teachings are founded on selfism – they deceive us into believing we are God or there’s an aspect of us that is God, which cleverly removes our true Parent from the picture, hence depriving us of Godly love, protection and guidance we can all receive freely for being the children of God.

This is why there’s so much emphasis on self-love, self-worship, self-mastery, and self-glorification. I was drinking that koolaid as well in the past and wrote tons of posts like “You’re enough and perfect the way you are, just love yourself and all is well.”

Allie Beth Stuckey has a wonderfully bold book called You’re Not Enough (And That’s Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love, which I highly recommend. After decades of drowning in books like “you’re more than enough but here’s what you need to do to feel enough,” this brutally honest and pretense-free book is like a breath of fresh air. 

Of course we all want to be positive and confident. Of course each of us has talents and strengths to contribute to society. I am not demonizing any of those things, or advocating being a doormat and living on crumbs. But this is also where the devil catches us in his trap.  

If you know anything about Luciferianism, it is all about trapping us in DECEPTION sold under the promise all our desires will be fulfilled, like selling the “solution” after they create a problem (look closely at the events in our world today, you will see that everywhere).

2 Timony 3:2-5 (NIV)

But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.

We are indeed in the last days.

The Father Wound

There’s a big reason why we don’t feel enough, chase after money, sex, substances, or pornography to find fulfillment, or treat God (“the universe”) like a sugar daddy.

It is certainly not because we haven’t chanted enough affirmations or listened to enough motivational talks. The reason is, we are naturally craving God’s love like children craving love, but we are told by the world (including the spiritual world) to look for it in the wrong places.

Without His love, guidance and protection, we are like orphans shivering in the cold. We look for it everywhere. So the solution to consistent fulfillment isn’t through us – human beings with natural limitations and blind spots, it is through knowing Him – the infinite and omnipotent Creator whose truth is objective and eternal; yesterday, today, and tomorrow. No matter how we feel or what our perspective is, He is always here for us.

This is a wound that most of us don’t even know exists in us, that has dictated all our thoughts and behavior for as long as we’ve been alive. I know this because one of the most common things clients say after they restore inner union is, “I didn’t even know I had this wound, but this is exactly what I’ve been looking for my whole life.”

Our original trauma is the trauma of an internal split: split from God, and split from each other – the masculine and feminine polarities. For as long as we live from this trauma, our eyes cannot see and our ears cannot hear the truth. This trauma originated from the Garden of Eden, and has been thoroughly exploited by the devil.

All the Instagram influencers’ and motivational speakers’ emphasis on “overcoming your limitations and being all that you can be,” the New York Time’s best-selling self-help books on mastering the unconscious mind and hacking into our potential, and the manifestation practices on worshipping the self as a deity who is self-sufficient, rich, successful and sexy wouldn’t even be necessary, if we just live from true alignment – God’s will. This is the only alignment we ever need.

Having been in both worlds, I can say without a shadow of doubt that being filled with our Creator’s love, wisdom, truth and faithfulness is like being in the most fulfilling relationship where all your needs are more than met – you have zero need to look elsewhere, and your loving gaze is on and only on Him. God’s truth is incredibly simple and filling.

It is like having a warm blanket over your heart at all times, and having a fortress that shelters you from all storms. There is simply nothing like it, not even close. 

His original design for you was never to jump through a thousand hoops to be in communion with Him which is promoted by both religion and spirituality. Rather, it has always been about having a genuine personal relationship. But you need to ask, and initiate. It’s always been about RELATIONSHIP, AND NOT RELIGION. 

Here’s the unpopular statement that may make you cringe, especially if you’ve been identifying as a “whole, perfect, complete and infinite creator” like I did.

If we had to work this hard to convince ourselves we are so perfect and glorious, and do ten thousand things to maintain it, let’s be honest, maybe it’s just not the whole truth. Maybe we’re so traumatized within, and so blinded and disconnected from the TRUE SOURCE – God Himself, that we are like children throwing tantrums and repeating the same thing over and over without any conviction.

Allowing God to be God, and human to be human requires a deep level of submission and humbleness on our part.


I know personally, I was not ready for this level of submission in the past, because being the creator meant I got to control my environment and results. Had this been presented to me a few years ago, the first question I’d ask would be, “But would I still get results, if I stopped relying on myself?”

Ah, just how traumatized are we as God’s children, that we are equating following Him with suffering, loss of revenue and joy, and whatever else we place before God’s love? This, is the exact blind spot that has allowed our bodies, minds and hearts to be infiltrated by Luciferian spiritual teachings, and treat our own Father as the Genie in the bottle.

Imagine entering a relationship solely based on “what can I get out of this and what can you do for me,” what kind of conditional relationship is that?

The moment you replace faith in yourself with faith in HIM, everything in your life simplifies. Just this week, my partner and I were talking about doing open houses for a listing in our old neighborhood in NYC. Since we live in PA now, it means driving to the city everytime. I was telling him “it’d be so nice to get another listing in the same neighborhood to make the drive worthwhile. Two days later, a former client of ours called and wanted us to list her apartment. She is 5-minute walking distance from our first listing.

This is GRACE. We receive not because we are enslaving God to be our Santa Clause, but because we love our Father and we trust he provides for us, every step of the way.

Matthew 6:33 NIV

33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Your True Identity

Until we come home to Him, we’ll always be looping around all the blind spots created by the father wound, lying to ourselves about our own nature and capabilities, and chasing the carrot on a stick in order to meet our own needs, because we do not trust we are HELD AND COVERED by Him.

No amount of self-esteem or self-mastery can replace the original relationship He has intended for us, and this is why all spiritual practices not centered around this relationship are missing the mark. They are NOT organic. They bring about temporary fulfillment and liberation. But when it runs out a week, a month, or three months later, we are like addicts looking for the next fix.

The devil – the very opposite of Jesus Christ, aims to collective as many souls as possible at whatever cost. This is already happening in our world right now and will only intensify. If he cannot get to us through fear and coercion, he will seduce us with distorted love, power, money, sexual magnetism, and unity.

No matter how much we believe we’ve cracked the code to 6-figure launches, we are dealing with an ancient force that was once the most beautiful and powerful angel in God’s kingdom.

Even for those who are aware of the deception in the matrix, it is impossible to wrap our human minds around just how advanced the technology and witchcraft that are being used against us are. The dark magus and sorcerers who control this world whether it is in spirituality or politics have gone through the degrees in Freemasonry, and have been initiated into the 33rd degree to reach enlightenment. Influencing and shaping our perception, thoughts, emotions and behavior via massive psychological operations and mind control tactics IS what they’ve spent their whole lives training for! This is the reality of living in a satanic matrix. THIS IS WHY our most faithful Father has been warning us to keep our eyes only on Him, and not play with anything that is not His word – we are like children playing with fire! 

At all times in this life, we get to choose which power moves us – God, or the devil. There is no third choice.

The law of attraction is a seductive flattery that distorts who we are and what our priorities are. In believing we are the master of ourselves, we are selling ourselves short to be the slaves to the dark master. To have to work this hard for something that God naturally grants us can only come from an artificially generated identity that is not rooted in our identity in God.

Your true identity is this:

You are the beloved son or daughter of the Most High. This mighty God who has created everything knows you personally, and nothing pleases Him more than being an instrumental part of every aspect of your life, every moment of the day. In restoring this level of intimacy with Him, your childlike innocence is also restored, and everything in your life will take on a blissful luster. This is the purity and innocence of being the child and receiver. 

It is through faith in Him, that we are fulfilled beyond our wildest dreams.

Luke 18:17 NIV

Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.

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